There are only two days that people are likely to tell you what you mean to them. Your birthday and your funeral, I guess that’s why some of us love birthdays since funerals are like… (you know 😒)
There are so many people who touch and impact our lives in so many ways but very few times we take the time to tell them how they impact us.
Sometimes that person is about to give up and he/she is wondering if what he/she is doing is of any importance and they need you to tell them how they have impacted your life.
Yes, we should not do things to be noticed by people or receive praises, but it feels good to know that you are touching someone’s life, this gives you the courage to move on even if it is just one person.
But so many times we just say how much we appreciate some people, but they do not know that we appreciate them or how much we look up to them.
It is not necessary for that person to be a celebrity, they can be your friends, relatives or even you parents who have impacted your life. Have you told them? Cause, believe me, they need to know how much you appreciate what they are doing to your life. Don’t just post them on social media or just appreciate them in your heart. TELL THEM. It will help them move on when they are about to give up cause they will remember there is one person who is looking up to them, maybe they needed that one affirmation that what they are doing is relevant.
Do not wait for birthdays or funerals to tell people how much you love and appreciate them, TELL them NOW before it is too late, cause it will encourage them to do better and move on.
Ooh! kwa mara ya kwanza soma tena kwa Kiswahili 🎉❤
Mara nyingi tunawapa watu sifa kwenye siku yao ya kuzaliwa au kwenye msiba wakiwa wameshafariki.
Kuna watu wengi wanayagusa maisha yetu kwa namna moja au nyingne, kwa wanayoyafanya lakini ni mara chache sana tunawaambia namna ambavyo tunabarikiwa na wanayoyafanya.
Saa nyingine mtu anakaribia kukata tamaa na anajiuliza kama kuna faida yoyote katika analolifanya na anahitaji wewe umwambie namna anavyobadilisha maisha yako.
Ndio, hatutakiwi kufanya vitu ili kupata sifa kwa watu. Lakini ni vizuri kujua kwamba una mchango kwenye maisha ya mtu. Hii inakupa nguvu ya kuendelea hata kama mtu huyo ni mmoja.
Ila mara nyingi, tunaishia tu kusema, Fulani ana ni bariki, napenda Fulani anavyofanya hivi au vile lakini wenyewe hawajui kama wanamchango kwenye maisha yako.
Sio lazima wawe watu maarufu, ya mkini ni rafiki zako, ndugu zako au wazazi wako wanaokusaidia kwa namna moja au nyingine, je umewaambia? Na wao wanahitaji kujua mchango walionao kwenye maisha yako. Acha kuishia kuwapost tu, au kusema tu moyoni, waambie wajue, itawasaidia kutokukata tamaa wakijua yapo maisha ya mtu mmoja wanayagusa. Huwezi jua yamkini walikua wanakaribia kukata tamaa kwa kuhisi hawana faid akatika wanalolifanya.
Usisubiri birthday au msiba kuanza kusema namna ulivyokua unampenda mtu, mwambie sasa hivi kabla hujachelewa maana itamtia moyo kuendelea.
PS: This week call or text someone you love/appreciate and tell them what they mean to your life.