I really like honesty, but I feel like I have never been honest most of my life. You see everyone around me looks perfect, they smile, they look happy and say that they are fine even if they feel like something is ripping them apart.
But most times I am not fine, I just want to cry and tell someone of how my day is not going on well, how life is treating me bad and how much I have no idea what I am gonna do next. I cannot figure out my life and most times I feel confused.
Everyone around looks perfect but hey they are just pretending, I for one do not know why. Maybe we have created a world where being perfect is required of us. I mean what happened? We all act like we have this figured but no we do not.
People are struggling with sin, but they cannot ask for help because they will be judged instead of being helped
Teenagers are not understanding their body changes and emotions, but they cannot share with anyone cause people think it is bad to talk about it
20s are not sure about their career choices, things they have studied or even their passions, they cannot figure out life but they get no one to consult because everyone is acting as if they got it all together
Moms and dads are confused on how to properly raise their children but there is nowhere to get advice cause no one will share it, no one will even admit that their kids are troublesome
People are dying little bit everyday with their problems but they have nowhere to turn cause everyone else is busy being perfect.
We have turned into people who are not honest, who fake everything even how we slept, maybe because we have spent most of our lives judging others instead of helping them
So, if you have been thru something and came out of it alive, please share you never know who you are helping, if someone shares something with you do not judge them instead help them or even just listen to them (and please do not go around gossiping about them). May we just stop being perfect and be human just for once. May we be people who uplift each other and are honest about what is happening in our lives, cause in that way we may find someone else passing thru the same path and get a travel buddy.
Tell me, are you perfect? If not, are you being honest to people around you?