BEING PERFECT

I really like honesty, but I feel like I have never been honest most of my life. You see everyone around me looks perfect, they smile, they look happy and say that they are fine even if they feel like something is ripping them apart.

But most times I am not fine, I just want to cry and tell someone of how my day is not going on well, how life is treating me bad and how much I have no idea what I am gonna do next. I cannot figure out my life and most times I feel confused.

Everyone around looks perfect but hey they are just pretending, I for one do not know why. Maybe we have created a world where being perfect is required of us. I mean what happened? We all act like we have this figured but no we do not.

People are struggling with sin, but they cannot ask for help because they will be judged instead of being helped

Teenagers are not understanding their body changes and emotions, but they cannot share with anyone cause people think it is bad to talk about it

20s are not sure about their career choices, things they have studied or even their passions, they cannot figure out life but they get no one to consult because everyone is acting as if they got it all together

Moms and dads are confused on how to properly raise their children but there is nowhere to get advice cause no one will share it, no one will even admit that their kids are troublesome

People are dying little bit everyday with their problems but they have nowhere to turn cause everyone else is busy being perfect.

We have turned into people who are not honest, who fake everything even how we slept, maybe because we have spent most of our lives judging others instead of helping them

So, if you have been thru something and came out of it alive, please share you never know who you are helping, if someone shares something with you do not judge them instead help them or even just listen to them (and please do not go around gossiping about them). May we just stop being perfect and be human just for once. May we be people who uplift each other and are honest about what is happening in our lives, cause in that way we may find someone else passing thru the same path and get a travel buddy.

Tell me, are you perfect? If not, are you being honest to people around you?

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11 thoughts on “BEING PERFECT

  1. That point when we decide to confess we need help with things that are beyond our control and seek help and counseling.. we achieve that God creation purpose of not being alone. We all created being a helper to one another.
    We know this and not be ashamed to live to it.

    “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
    ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭3:17‬ ‭

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  2. Yes its so true,
    I think time wraping the situations is what perfects humans as they are being beings,THERE IS NOTHING PERFECT AS THE POSITIVE OUTCOME OF A VICTOR WHO WENT THROUGH A HARD TIME ENOUGH TO RIP HIM APART BUT STILL STANDS UP WINNING,
    come to think about it looking at David who at times would fail to achieve what he loved the most (pleasing God)with body weakneses but still would run to the same God for refuge#thats winning
    no matter the situation stay focused to who you are by first knowing who you are #thats perfectly perfect

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  3. Waooooh you have spoken the truth.

    Honestly speaking it is very hard to attain perfection. If ur struggling look for perfection of expect all people to be perfect you will end up stressed.

    People are having a lot of problems and challenges but to whom they can share if people around are busy looking for perfection as if they are perfect.

    Let us be honest, help each other without judging.

    Be blessed Prisca.

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  4. It’s true that most of people afraid to express their feelings to others because of running from peoples judgemental towards him, and this is very dangerous to hidde something which is unwanted its may lead to cause big issues to a person and those who surrounding him! The issue is to take action to professional people who deal with problem solving for more help! Never tell your serious isse which stress u to a person yu know coz it will end up judgement!
    Great appreciation to Prisca! Kp it up my dear!

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  5. its always been true just because most of the perceptions we do have in life is all positiveness, we do tend to see the world through a rose coloured spectacles thus seing the good only and trying not to spend sometimes digging down on how to overcome the imperfect side of ours!

    its high time for us to face life in its realist way

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